Committed Sex is Premeditated Spontaneity

Committed Sex is Premeditated Spontaneity

Creating a long term relationship that remains erotic, a couple must experience separation and connection at the same time; know that fore-play begins at the end of the last orgasm; are willing to know self pleasure  and have security to explore in privacy  and then resurrect the intimate connection between them.

Inspired by Ester Perel http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship.html